Day 521: Reflections

“Might we once again find peace as we ponder what's behind the eyes of those we see—and even, within the mirror's reflection of who you need to love most.”

I don’t even know where to begin on this day’s post number two, other than to ask my own “Why.” To allow the transparency I have promised you. So today, I’m reaching out in free-flowing a sincere stream of thoughts. Starting what I hope becomes an endless dialogue. Even a conversation—that in a distanced and vicarious way—might allow you an active role as you comment and take part in the sharing opportunities I’ll soon be launching. For in it all, and as we each open our ears, eyes, and hearts, perhaps there is a synergy to be formed as the diverse people we are. Me, the 60-year-old white dude revealing his heart as a listener, moderator, and distiller—and you, a diverse community I have grown to love in titling the compassionate majority. People I call strangers-now-friends who, over the last decade and in the thousands, have proven a great number are ready to, in the words of Gration (Day 218) “Share More Open Hand Than Fist.”

From every generation, gender, race, and outlook, many have stepped forward to trust me—and to you, the audience of my blogs, podcasts, talks, and outreach, please accept my deep and genuine thank you. Because for me, I wish no grandeur. I feel it is more important to credit you as you live forward your example within the circle of your influence.

For over a decade, Sidewalk Ghosts and the Radstone Blog have engaged in topics and conversations far beyond myself. Narratives that have become impossible for me to cease (and God above knows I’ve tried). A confession to you in stating; I am ready to do my part to rekindle the fire we have let simmer far too long.

To those of you here for the first time, please accept my hand of acceptance in whoever and wherever you are. I welcome you into a community that transcends commonality and difference. A place where we can give and receive as we strive to find center in seeing each other with empathetic minds. For in the exchange of our hidden histories, our joys, our pains, and in allowing consideration toward others, is a power to progress as contributors to this world we share (toward those we agree with, and even with those we object to).

So on this day two of a no-ended commitment, I write this rather soap-boxy and poetic post. Opening to you more of who I am as I work to evolve how this blog can best serve you—admission to a beyond-myself effort. One in which I need your support to grow.

I know. A rather obtuse and poetic entry this is. But as you take it in, may I ask for your pause? For as we grow in this shared experience, I promise a tactile and visible throughline. If you will, an actionable message taught me over a lifetime of interactions with now numberless individuals—all who bravely and honestly opened their hearts and lives to us as they shared their experiences and perspectives. And, in gratitude to you who have trusted me with your stories, I hope you are reading this now. Thank you!

Yes, the Radstone Blog is re-emerging from the mothballs! And as we set sail, might we once again find peace as we ponder what’s behind the eyes of those we see—and even, within the mirror’s reflection of who you need to love most.

Talk tomorrow my good friends,

Richard

Day 520: I Submit to the Big Question – “WHY”

I'm wide awake now! My tongue stuck to the roof of my mouth from the dryness of smashing a pillow around my face.

Tonight my dog won! 80 ounces of carpet-soiling K-9 with the fortitude to stress me to the max. So in an attempt to escape the bedside sound of her licking herself to my insanity, I now find myself trying to fall asleep in the guest room. All the while, my 97-year-old dementia mother strolling the hallway on an all-so-squeaky walker. A privilege that for the last 7 years my family, no– my wife, has fully accepted in being her full-time caregiver.

I’m wide awake now! My tongue stuck to the roof of my mouth from the dryness of smashing a pillow around my face. 

I’m wide awake now! My tongue stuck to the roof of my mouth from the dryness of smashing a pillow around my face. But, I’m a good son. I promised my departed father I’d take care of her. Yet, to be fully transparent, I’d be a liar if I did not confess that my thoughts tonight are shamefully sharp and dismissive— Especially as I reflect on the sacrifice and effort made on the part of my wife. Who does that for a mother-in-law?

I push down my 2 AM selfishness as I teeter from held-back anger and fatigue to compassion. Mindsets that lately and most embarrassingly, have grown uncomfortably familiar to me. An emotional distraction that has shadowed the creative night dreamer and optimist I am.

I submit. Are you OK? I ask her.

Yet, as I embrace the realities of my life and face an extremely exhausted emotional self, a certain clarity is coming back into my heart and mind. An inventory propelled as I review the experiences of 2021-2022 past. A year that, as I listed the responsibilities of life, led me to uproot myself, my family, and all that was familiar to me to accept a career opportunity in another state. You know! The smart choice! The secure and comfortable thing to do! Yet as the relocation progressed, and as I succeeded in fulfilling my commitments and milestones, the champagne glass quickly yellowed. Turns out, all was not as it appeared to be. Thus, begins another rebirth and acceptance of lessons learned. A chapter to fully honor my authentic self and a time to recommit to releasing all I can to you, my known and unknown audience.

If you’ve followed me over the last decade, you’ve probably listened to my soapboxes, critiqued my views, met the faces of, and heard perspectives from 100s of strangers to you. If you’ve associated or worked with me over the last 30 years, I hope we’ve shared some meaningful moments and created some palpable work. Maybe you’ve liked, or (and it’s way okay) disliked my photos, films, writings, and podcasts. But in all, I promise I’ve at least strived to be open and honest. 

It is in this vulnerability I must come clean to confess that over the last few years I’ve become a little forced. All for good intent, mind you. Had to go through the learning curve of podcast production, streaming tech, website development, crowdfunding, speaking, and so much trial and error with Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and (Heaven help me) TikTok. So here it is: I’m maxed out and have decided to go back to the grassroots that got us all together in the first place— the blog world (although I will still be integrating with social channels and other ways to contribute and share).

So again, I submit.

Release myself from the worldly definitions of what it means to be a provider and trust an outlook that has consistently directed me. This a statement I do not take lightly as I consider the cultural, political, social, and economic times we are now facing. And as I open up to you, my wishes are humble. That I can be in tune with the spiritual, emotional, and intellectual promptings that are rising in me (as I did during the freeflow narrative of 2011). Able to be enlightened, directed, and helpful in connecting us in a dialogue of purpose. Just like what happened as 10s of thousands followed, contributed to, and lived forward the messages found within the stories of the original 365-day stranger-meeting challenge.

In going forward (this time with a lot fewer typos— thank you Grammarly), I’ll not be placing a deadline on when we will stop, or be trying to recreate what was (although we’ll resume a few of the ways that worked for you to share your wisdom and experience). But overall, this voyage is going to be different: Not only focused on meeting a stranger every day (although we will meet many); it will be more organic. There will be more in-the-moment writings, new social observations, fresh essays, never seen poetry, a range of mixed media stories, and perspectives from all kinds of people.

As before, I’ll be asking some of the original 365 questions. Yet, in this outreach, I’ll be incorporating an additional question: A speaking point that can grow our dialogue regarding who we are as diverse people. Hopefully, even strengthen our empathy toward others as we pause to consider what we, as individuals, are going through. That question—simply this… WHY?

I’m looking forward to seeing where we go!

Talk tomorrow my friends,

Richard

Into the Mind and Heart of Photographer and Artist Richard Radstone – A Most Outgoing and Gregarious Hermit

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A big thank you to Artiholics contributing editor and artist in her own right Ylenia Mino, and their Art Tripping, Art Nerding and Fashion Forwarding blog. It was such a great interview and I love what you all are sharing.

CLICK HERE to read the full interview and to see what they are doing at Artiholics.

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“The Village” Documentary

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Imagine being strong enough to get into college. Not just any college, but a university that takes more than just wishing to gain entrance, but ironically, you find yourself homeless at the same time...

Not just any college, but a university that takes more than just wishing to gain entrance. Imagine leaping all of the hurdles, like exceptional grades, noteworthy SAT scores, dynamic essays, and heartfelt recommendations. You find yourself accepted to a door-opening future, but ironically, you find yourself homeless at the same time.

Not the kind of homeless that you might see under the freeway overpass, but the kind that you never want anyone on campus to notice. The kind of homeless that you go out of your way to disguise so that nobody will ever really know that you’re different. It’s hard enough just being a student under normal conditions – normal as in not having to worry about whether you’ll eat or sleep on a given day, or have a place to put your personal belongings without the fear of them disappearing when you go to class.

But for the one out of ten college students who are actually homeless, surviving school is much more than just passing grades, it’s living under the radar. And despite the incredible odds against them, it’s having the faith to succeed.

Thank you to Faith Counts for your generously funding for the making of this documentary, All at Students 4 Students, their donors, the students who are thriving in their program, Ulf Soderqvest for his amazing camera work, all my crew, Matt Ball for his tireless efforts in being my development, production partner, a plain old good friend; and an endless thanks you to Louis Tse, for without his vision, sacrifice and faith, none of this work would be happening.

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His name is Louis Tse, and with one out of ten university and college students living homeless, he has inspired many a co-student and supporters to build an organization that is truly bettering the world we share. Please say hello to STUDENTS 4 STUDENTS.

THEIR MISSION
Students 4 Students establishes and promotes collaborative shelters for young people, by young people, to end college homelessness.

Our primary aim is to shelter and support college students experiencing homelessness. We also share our model with colleges, universities, student groups, faith organizations and others wishing to replicate our collaborative approach. Our program empowers students who operate our shelter to become the next generation of philanthropists, non-profit, and community service leaders. 

We believe that students should hunger for knowledge, not hunger for food; that students should use their smarts on their books, not on finding a place to sleep. We see hope for strong communities when young people are able to determine their own pursuit of education, not their circumstances. 

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International Color Award Win

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13TH ANNUAL INTERNATIONAL COLOR AWARDS –

Thank you to The International Color Awards for honoring two of my portraits. There were 6,093 entries we received this year and I wish to share a big appreciation for all who entered as well as to the jury members from Newsweek, New York; Apartheid Museum, Johannesburg; The Art Channel, London; Netflix, Los Angeles; Koller Auctions, Zurich; Preus Museum, Norway; Galerie Mitterrand, Paris; Fila, New York; Wieden & Kennedy, Portland; Kolle Rebbe, Hamburg; Fox Broadcasting Network, Los Angeles; Gallery Kong, Seoul; Mini/BMW Group, London; and the Royal Academy Of Art and The Hague, Netherlands.

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Thank You Circle

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Based in Lyon, France –

Circle Foundation For The Arts is an organization representing over 300 internationally selected artists. I am honored to announce that I have been accepted to be part of their latest curated publication, Spotlight Magazine. Here is a link if you would like to see the work of 75 amazing and diverse artists from around the globe. Circle Spotlight – Issue 15

A warmest thank you to all at Circle.

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A Night with Sidewalk Ghosts

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Sidewalk Ghosts –

It was quite a special event. Almost 200 came to hear the message of Sidewalk Ghosts. Thanks to all who shared the evening with me.

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The Remarkable Nina Bergman

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Nina Bergman –

One of the most multi-talented artists I’ve ever met, Nina is a true 10 in all she does. From ballet to rock-and-roll to acting to just being one of the most down-to-earth people I know, I feel privileged to call her good friend. Truly one of my favorite collaborators. Nina, thanks for who you are.

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Actor Shannon Kane

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Shannon Kane –

Brooklyn’s Finest with Richard Gere to BET’s American Soul, Shannon has brought her signature mix of compassion an power to the characters she portrays. For years we have worked together in telling stories that are real and heartfelt. We are currently working on a short film that is sure to make many feel and think. Stay Tuned…

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KROQs Megan Holiday

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KROQ'S Megan Holiday –

I was lucky enough to have been twice interviewed on her radio show “Openline”. In each I shared events and ideas for the outreach work I do. Megan is a person of great character, meaning and depth, and I feel privileged to call her “Friend”. Here are a couple of portraits we came up with. 

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Dreams
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Seven
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